Here is my Deal or No Deal top 5 list:
5. Case # 1 - Claudia
4. Case # 13 - Leyla
3. Case # 23 - Aubrey
2. Case # 6 - Megan
And the my Number 1 Deal or No Deal Hottie…
Case # 11 - Katie ( and she’s from Chicago )
Honorable mention goes to case # 9 Patricia and #12 Jill
I was leaving for lunch and our Admin Assistant was on her knees by the door and I though of saying ” Hey while you are down there… “. But I thought better of it since I need this job.
Starting to get a bit worried about The Queens “Aunt Flow” not showing up as expected. I hope nothing has happened to her. I look forward each month to her visit, it brings me comfort and piece of mind. Sometimes I get on the ground and thank God she has arrived. “Auntie Flow”, oh where oh where can you be?
Growing up was hard for me, I was this skinny skinny long haired girl, who was (back then) shy and scared to talk to anyone. I am sure that all of us at one time or another have been picked on or made fun of at school. Sure I had some friends but the ones who were “cool” never gave me the time of day. Of course as I started High School, I still kept to myself only because the school I was attending was not such a safe school to be in. I still had my small group of friends but kept my distance from others.
My son came home yesterday (Valentine’s Day) and he looked bummed, so I asked him what was wrong and he said he had a bad day, I told him to tell me what happened so he proceeds to go through is “ENTIRE” day, once he is done I look at him and ask “So why are you so bummed? Nothing you told me explains why you look sad”. He says I can’t tell you. Oh yes you can and I want to know now is my repsonse. He says that he wanted to give a girl something for Valentine’s Day (she was once his little girlfriend for about a week,lol) so his big sister gave him a necklace to give to this girl. He said at recess he went up to her and asked her to be his Valentine and gave her the necklace, she looked at it and through it on the floor and said “No I will not be your Valentine, I don’t like you”. So I went to where my son was standing and I hugged him and said to him “I will always be your valentine son and do not worry because you are going to go through this time and time again with girls, but right now you are so young to be worried about things like this and in time there will be girls that like you and will want you to be their boyfriend.” Then he says “well when is that?” My reply? “When you are 24 dude!”. LOL
My thing is why are kids so rude to each other? This little girl crushed him, does she have no clue how long it took him to get up the courage to ask her? She could have at least said “Sorry R I am someone elses Valentine, and leave out the I don’t like you part. But I have told my son just like I told my eldest daughter that there are going to be girls/guys coming in and out of your life and when you feel one of them is the right one you will be on cloud nine and it will feel right to be together. My son was pretty quiet the rest of the night, but today he seemed his self so hopefully he got over what happened and will just continue with his young life, going to school to learn lots of things and hopefully what happened yesterday will make him become a better person, a stronger person. I did tell him that life sucks sometimes especially if something doesn’t go your way. I wish I would have had someone to talk to when I was young then I would have known that kids can be cruel to each other but don’t take it personal they are just rude people trying to look cool.
Ok I am torn on what to do so I am asking for everyones’ suggestions. My ex-mother was rushed to the hospital late Sunday night, she had been on a waiting list for a new kidney for several years now and so far nothing came about it. She now has an infection in her blood, it has now attack her kidneys and liver. My guess is that they have her on pain medication and will only allow her to sleep in 30 minute intervals, she will slip into a coma otherwise. I have been talking to one of my ex-sisters in law who calls me daily with an update. My ex in laws all live in California and seeing that my ex already flew out there on Monday, I have to decide on whether I send my two kids on a plane by themselves. I am terrified on doing that, My eldest is 17 and my son is 11. It broke my heart when I told my son today what his aunt told me last night, it is only a matter of time. As I write this he is in his room crying his little heart out. I have always made sure that my kids knew who their fathers side of the family were I never kept the kids from them even though these people do not deserve to see my kids, but that is another story in itself. I called an airline just to see what the prices are and I explained to my son that the tickets are going to be expensive but when they told me it was over $1,000.00 I freaked. My question is do I send my kids out there on the plane without an adult? I had a relative have a bad experience on a plane and she was terrified (poor thing she was 17 at the time) and a few years ago my daughters cousin who lives in Arizona was having a sweet 15 party and my daughter was part of the party and I flew down with her so that she wouldn’t fly alone, and on the way back we had a scare I thought for sure the plane was going to be hijacked. So having all that happen I really do not want to send them alone but yet I want them to be able to see her alive, I cannot go because I have two foster kids that are under DCFS so leaving them with anyone other than myself and my husband is not possible.
Any advise? Oh and as far as my DH goes I know what you will say so you don’t need to respond.
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